How does wisdom find its way into our “heart” (3820)? Obviously there is the work of grace.
(Acts 15:9 KJV) And put no difference between us and them, purifying their hearts by faith.We have the phrase we use about Jesus coming into our hearts. It is expressed many ways but God must work a miracle for wisdom to have a chance of being planted, let alone growing.
Then we need to actively seek wisdom.
(Proverbs 4:7 KJV) Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding.It does not just happen. Wisdom requires a desire to know the God we are to fear.
So? As Jesus said, “Ask, seek, find”. You might start in the book of Proverbs.