We have here a man who is being betrayed by his wife. Has he done anything to deserve it? There is no indication that he has. Of course that brings up the point that our behavior is not excused by the behavior of others. As Christians we are called to follow the Highway of Holiness. We are called to be salt and light. We are to stand out.
(Philippians 2:15 KJV) That ye may be blameless and harmless, the sons of God, without rebuke, in the midst of a crooked and perverse nation, among whom ye shine as lights in the world;Flip Wilson used to have a routine about how “the devil made me do it”. We have our own routines. We blame parents, children, society and even God. I know that when I eat too much I usually have some good excuse for my lack of discipline.
So? We will be judged on our response to the leading of the Holy Spirit. God already knows our excuses, what He wants is our obedience. Seek and find.