(Pro 11:22 KJV) As a jewel of gold in a swine's snout, so is a fair woman which is without discretion.
How often is the first thing we notice the least important? I guess there is the need for first impressions, after all, you can’t get to know someone well when you first see them. Keep in mind that a gold ring probably has the same innate value in a pigs nose that it does in the bottom of your drawer. The point is, don’t be impressed by the decorations.
I will never be a beautiful woman. I hope I have never been a pig. I can however develop the traits and talents that underlay the first impression. There is no reason why a beautiful woman cannot have “discretion” (2940) but it does not come automatically.
So? Some things you can fix. Some things need a work around. Wisdom knows the difference both in the observer and observed.