We have been slowly brainwashed by our culture. It started during my youth with a justified concern that people who had suffered divorce were not being forgiven. Often they were considered pariahs. So church thinkers began to get us to work at including these unfortunate people. That was important because God is in the business of restoring broken pots. Somehow in the process we threw the baby out with the bath water. Divorce is now no big deal and because of that it has become common. The needle of morality kept moving until now we have people living in adultery who claim to be doing nothing wrong.
We need to be reminded that divorce is one of those things that God hates.
(Malachi 2:16 KJV) For the LORD, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away: for one covereth violence with his garment, saith the LORD of hosts: therefore take heed to your spirit, that ye deal not treacherously.“Putting away” (7971) is the Hebrew term for divorce. God hates it. We have made it mainstream.
So? The point is that we need to take a God’s eye view of sexual sin and self centeredness. If you are a disciple of Jesus certain things that may be legal and endorsed by our society are not an option.