(Proverbs 16:2 KJV) All the ways of a man are clean in his own eyes; but the LORD weigheth the spirits.
I am getting old. Actually, I am already old but I am getting older. I often joke about losing my mind and how I will be the last one to know. Actually that is just an extension of our normal insight. I would say that we are usually the last one to know that we are wrong. Even the person with low self esteem assumes that perception is reality. In their case it might be a low opinion of themselves instead of arrogance. It is still limited by being self perception.
We need to do our own thinking and make our own decisions. We also need to realize that input from others is healthy.
So? Be willing to listen and then try to evaluate from what you know God has said through His word. There are many propositions you can reject out of hand.