(Pro 9:2 KJV) She hath killed her beasts; she hath mingled her wine; she hath also furnished her table.
My wife gets frustrated when she has me “set” (6185a) (KVJ furnished) the “table” (7979). With all due respect, I can’t get too excited about whether the knife faces in or out. I can see the importance of getting all the utensils at each place setting but what difference does it make if the fork is on the left or the right? I would only worry about it if I was having someone over who cared. The problem with that is you can’t be sure who that is.
How do we structure our daily lives? What difference does it make if we wear shorts or long pants? Do we really need socks? There are many questions we could ask and the answer to most of them would be one we hate, “It depends.”
So? Take the high road. Look to present your best. Avoid the shortcuts. You know all the advice. The problem is applying it on a regular basis.