(Pro 19:19 KJV) A man of great wrath shall suffer punishment: for if thou deliver him, yet thou must do it again.
Certain lessons must be learned the hard way. Here the issue is “wrath” (anger NASB) (2534). It could just as easily be financial irresponsibility or washing wool in hot water. The offender tends to make excuses. How many times have you heard, “I’m Irish” to explain sudden flare ups. Maybe so. Some people are Irish. All are sinners. All are expected to grow in their daily walk.
We cannot “deliver” (rescue NASB) (5337) some people from a problem like anger. You can become what the Alcoholics Anonymous people call an “enabler”. That means stepping in to keep people from experiencing the results of their actions. In the process you keep them from growing up and facing their failure. It makes you feel great but keeps them dependent.
So? Accept that you cannot solve everyone’s problems. I don’t think this is my issue but I have seen so many others who want to get everyone they meet straightened out. Good luck with that.