It is clear that Proverbs teaches Wisdom as a good thing. It is to be sought. It can be learned. It is very easy for us to seek it primarily to straighten out others. Here we are reminded that we need to be our own first target. There is a sort of parallel that is quoted all through the Bible but begins very early.
(Leviticus 19:18 KJV) Thou shalt not avenge, nor bear any grudge against the children of thy people, but thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself: I am the LORD.It has been offered that there is a healthy self-love that needs to be the basis of others-love. Of course our love of self is rooted in the acceptance that we are created in the image of God and redeemed through the blood of Christ. It is not because we are so awesome.
In the same way we are to listen to wisdom and ask ourselves, “How do I need to change?”
So? Work on getting your own house in order. When that becomes clear it is possible that others will ask you for your input instead of you insisting on it.