(Proverbs 14:13 KJV) Even in laughter the heart is sorrowful; and the end of that mirth is heaviness.
I think of this as a possible endorsement of “gallows humor”. I say that because I have rarely seen a situation in which I cannot see something to joke about. Often I have the common sense to realize my one liner would be in bad taste and only cause more “pain” (3510). Too frequently my mouth exceeds the speed of thought.
It is also a reminder that even the love of Christ does not shelter us from the stubbed toes of life. Look at the life of Paul. Look at the rejection of the prophets. For that matter, Jesus knew a bit of suffering Himself. The good news is that even in the dark times we are walking in the light. Don’t think of the low spots as being abandoned by God or punishment for some moment of weakness.
So? We have a hope, an assurance, based on the character of God and made possible by the blood of Christ. Rejoice in the hard times and laugh if you can. Just don’t expect everyone to see the lighter side.