(Pro 13:10 KJV) Only by pride cometh contention: but with the well advised is wisdom.
Evidently Socrates once said, "The unexamined life is not worth living". That is another way of getting to this verse. As an introvert I am deep into introspection. I have a hard time believing that people never stop to examine their motives or pause to consider that they may be the one who is wrong. In that I am wrong. Evidently it is quite common. Solomon says that kind of attitude will lead to nothing but problems.
I have found that I need to accept the fact that I might be right and the other person might be wrong. Others need to look at the other side of the mirror. I am not sure which is harder.
So? Attitude checks are vital.